"I'm
a failure" "I'll never make it." That's the kind of affirmation we
hear people say. To overcome this feeling of worthlessness you need
to make 3 little steps that will help you discover the genius within
you.
1) You need to motivate yourself.
First of all, remember that great
people learned a basic and essential quality you need to acquire:
persistence.
Very successful people failed many times, like most of us. But they get up
right away and they begin again and again until they eventually succeed.
We can motivate ourselves by seeing the result in our mind as if it has already
occurred. Feel what you would feel if you have better grades. Name this feeling.
Amplify this feeling until it becomes very pleasant.
Now, you are going to add some new feelings upon this first feeling. Do you
remember a time when you were really excited about something? When you have
this excitement in you, add it to the first very pleasant feeling as if you
put a coat of excitement over the coat of 'very pleasant state'.
Let this feeling of excitement diffuse in you and notice how you feel. Notice
how feel very motivated, calm and confident. And for a moment, you know that
you will succeed in school. But something holds you back. You need to make
this second step....
2) You need to get rid of the beliefs that hold you back.
Consider the law of belief: whatever you believe becomes
your reality.
Once you understand and appropriate this belief in
yourself, you discover that you can do many things
and especially have better grades. Throughout
your life you learn. It's a never-ending process. School
is just the beginning of this process with its special
rules and rewards, which can sometimes seem
unfair.
You begin to change by being aware that you are a potential
genius and that you CAN do better and you WILL. What do you
learn from having bad grades?
Consider that it is an opportunity to learn. And most important,
it's a chance to learn that you're not the problem; it's
only your strategies. That's why
you need to take the last lesson... You need to learn how
to learn.
3) You need new strategies. If something doesn't
work, do something else.
First, be aware of your learning style.
Are you visual, auditory, kinesthetic?
Remember that you have multiple intelligences and when
you use them as much as possible you increase your
chances of having better results.
Have the
end in mind. Act as if you already had the solution. Now
you only need to fill in the blanks.
If you already know where to go, your brain will
help you find the solutions. Use mind maps, movement
and imagination. Learning
how to learn is a necessity
for children and adults to perform better in life. These
three steps are important to succeed in school.
One step takes care
of your beliefs, another
of your emotions and the other one of your strategies to
have better grades and to perform better in life.